It's all Betty Beguiles' fault.
Yesterday, after my husband had left for work, I was trying to get some housework stuff done. And I started feeling all self-righteous and superior to my husband because I was getting all this stuff done and "why can't he do some of this stuff", and in general just grumbling.
And it wasn't until this morning when I sat down and read that post from Betty that the scales fell from my eyes. He really does a lot - and when I listen to the devil and pour heaps of disdain upon my husband (in my head), it doesn't do our marriage or our kids any favors.
So, I will endeavor to shut up and to pray for my husband and to help him.